Safety

Advice from mom right when you need it, but don’t want to call home.

There’s a moment that happens to almost everyone in their late teens and early twenties. Something comes up that you don’t know how to handle. But you don’t want to call your parents. You want to prove, to yourself as much as anyone, that you can figure this out.

 

This guide is meant for that moment.

 

Sure you could ask AI. But a bot has never been scared or lost or unsure. This guide was written by a mom of four who has been where you are, with kids in college, who knows what you’re capable of, and who genuinely cares how this next chapter goes. Every topic in this book started with her asking: What would help you most in this exact moment?

 

Moments like when someone won’t take no for an answer or a friend tells you someone assaulted them.

 

You already have what it takes to conquer life. Think of this as  the kind of backup that gives you the confidence to walk into hard moments instead of away from them.

 

Here’s How guides are meant to be used as reference, something you reach for when you need it. Glance over the topics below so you know what’s here. After that, bookmark the link and save it to your phone’s homescreen.

 

Come back when life throws something at you. No judgment, no lecture. Just advice from “mom” right when you need it.

Being all the way yourself, where all can see it, is scary. It costs you some people. But that same rejection is how you find those who won’t walk away.

So figure out what you value, and live it out loud. The people who value the same things will find you.

Once they do, take the honesty further. Tell them, kindly, when they’ve let you down. Good friends can take that. But you have to be that kind of friend too. Ask where you’ve let them down. Sit with it. Own it, and fix what you can.

The ones who stay through all of that know everything and want you anyway. They’re the ones that make life worth living.

Open When You..

Are sexually assaulted

Failed Test

How to use it to your advantage.
Let's Go!

Open When You...

Are somewhere and drugs come out and you want an exit

Motivation

The 5 minute trick.
Let's Go!

Open When Your...

Gut says leave and you don't want to be rude

Taking Notes

Capture ideas without writing everything down.
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Open When Your...

Roommate situation feels unsafe

Confusion

Why it's actually necessary for learning.
Let's Go!

Open When You...

See someone being harassed or in danger

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!

Open When...

Someone keeps texting or showing up after you asked them to stop

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!

Open When...

Someone won't take No for an answer

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!

Open When...

Someone's harassing or stalking you online

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!

Open When...

Someone's making you uncomfortable and you're stuck near them in public

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!

Open When You Are...

Too impaired to drive and so is everyone else

Study Groups

Don't wait for someone else. Take the lead!
Let's Go!
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